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Good Vibes Only: Will I Lose Sensation from a Vibrator?


Please don’t kill my vibe. Goddesses are sexual beings who need pleasure. Gratification comes from a person or sometimes a pulsating penis-like toy. Vibrators offer sexual stimulation to your vagina and all her parts. Think of it like a deep tissue massage for your clitoris and beyond. Some women worry if their drive to experience orgasms is causing a loss of sensation. That’s the last thing we want. What’s a life without it?


No worries! The good news is vibrators won’t damage the vagina or your nerves. On the other hand, they can harm nerves in your hands. So be careful. If you start to feel numbness, take a break from using your device. Your hands should be back to normal in no time. If not, seek the advice of your physician.


Let’s discover how to get energized without worry.


  1. Moderation is key


It is ideal to use your vibrator 3-4 days per week at the most. That might seem like a lot, but everyone is different. This is for the goddesses who have a close relationship with their sex toys. Otherwise, pursue good vibes as you desire.


  1. Slow down


When you’re concerned about losing your sensation, reduce the speed and frequency. Start on level 1 and take note of how you feel. Gradually turn up the dial to find your top notch.


  1. No pain


For those who have decreased pleasure, speak to your doctor. There could be a change in your hormones. Depending on your history and age, menopause could be a factor. Talking to a medical professional gives you insight on what’s going on with body. They may prescribe medication or hormone therapy to get you back on track. Sometimes, depression or stress could force your hormones to decline. Search for ways to keep your happiness and to relieve your stress.


  1. Take control


If you’re getting energized between sessions with your partner, avoid using toys within 72 hours to maximize your pleasure and reduce your anxiety of not having orgasms. Continue having fun and trying new positions with your boo. You can have your cake and eat it too.


  1. Good vibes only


Vibrators don’t decrease sensitivity to your clitoris. They stimulate blood flow to that area and release that good feeling you love. Vibrators don’t change your nerve functions. Over time, what used to feel intense no longer does simply because your body got used to it. It’s natural to explore the various levels of your toys to discover what it can do for you. It has one job! As you learn more about your vibrator, you may be able to take on higher speeds.


  1. Double dose


Vibrators won’t affect your sex life with your partner. Those are two separate pleasers. Some people like to bring toys into the bedroom with their real partner to spice things up. Take a trip to the adult sex shop and see what tickles your fancies. Open communication about what each person is willing to try or do is essential. You don’t want to find out they’re not into something during the act. Talk about buzz kill.


  1. Oh my


Vibrators don’t let you lose your ability to orgasm during actual sex with your partner. Think of your vibrator as a teacher that shows you the quickest way to Orgasm Lane. Eventually, you’ll learn your special spots and can share them with your partner to hopefully guarantee your amazing orgasms with them.


  1. Get out of your head


It is okay if you only orgasm with a vibrator and not your partner initially. Ego comes into play when a partner feels like they can’t satisfy you. Sometimes the obstacle to orgasms is all in your head. You may not feel completely comfortable with your partner to let loose. They may not be hitting the right spots. You have to tell them what you like and how you like it. Being able to have raw conversations about the good, the bad and the unsatisfying is crucial to your pleasure. If you can’t, they might be the wrong partner. Ultimately, the use of the vibrator liberates you and encourages you to tap into your sensual side. Being more free and relaxed in the bedroom with your partner should definitely help your relationship and intimacy.


  1. Let’s go


The great thing about vibrators, it’s not one size fits all. They literally come in many sizes. There are varieties for you to try out. Amazon is a great place to start because you can read the reviews. You may stumble upon subject matter that you had questions about and find all of your answers. They also provide affordable options for everyone’s budget.


Listen to your body. When you feel pain, stop! If your hand goes numb, switch hands or stop using your toy until you regain sensation. Take a few days off. That may increase your appetite and lead to a bigger orgasm the next time. Try unique positions that make you feel comfortable and allow you to focus on the orgasm at hand. Start at a low speed and slowly increase it as you like. A little pleasure never hurt nobody!


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